Skyrim Multiple Marriage Mods – The Most Immersive

There are many interesting marriage mods in Skyrim for custom wives/husbands. Last week, I was looking for mods that allow multiple marriages and I came across a few that really stood out. So I thought, why not share it with the rest of you Skyrim fans?

So here is a list of the top Skyrim multiple marriage mods that allow polygamy in Skyrim. Check them out!

Best Skyrim Multiple Marriage Mods

Marriage Mod – To Have And To Hold

Marriage Mod – To Have And To Hold is a polygamy mod by joeThinkStudios. The mod is basically an improvement for the marriage system in vanilla Skyrim. It enhances the Wedding Scene at the Temple of Mara, allows for multiple spouses through new mechanics, and fixes the existing bug related to the marriage system. 

Apart from multiple marriages, the new additions also allow for a more robust and immersive experience in the marriage system to bring the spouses closer. 

Check the video below to find out what’s in store for you!

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As you can guess from the name, this mod by Dudestia allows you to marry multiple people at once, dress up your spouses as you like and relocate them to your desired houses.

Mod Guidelines

Follow my instructions to seamlessly run and use the mod. Please note that these instructions are by me, a fellow gamer and not by the mod creator. Although this mod does not crash the game, don’t forget to make a fresh save before you go ahead and install it. Follow this tip for ANY mod you install.

For Marrying Multiple Spouses

This mod offers you two ways to marry multiple spouses, either instantly or immersively. The immersive way, as you can guess, is a bit tedious. You will have to do the ceremony for each spouse separately. After normal ceremony, you will have to activate a statue located next to the altar, called Statue of Dudesta. Then, “Add” the present spouse in the multiple spouse table. After you have added the current spouse, reactivate the Statue of Dudesta and “Reset Wedding” for other spouses. 

On the other hand,  the instant way to marry multiple spouses is quite simple. Find two spellbooks lying in the Temple of Mara in Riften, situated just next to the Statue of Dudesta.  Upon learning the spells, you will have to equip the NPC Operator Spell and cast it on your desired people. A menu will open where you can select “Instant” to tie the knot(s).

Note: If you choose the instant way, you can also marry NPCs who cannot be married in the vanilla game such as Lydia. 

For Housing Your Spouses

After you have married them, they will go to their homes. You can relocate them between a number of houses. Just go to the house where you will keep your spouse, equip and cast the NPC Relocator spell to open a menu with your spouses’ info. Select any of the spouses that you want in that house and they will appear. They will interact with the objects but won’t leave that house. How obedient, right? Do the same for however many spouses you want to keep in the house. 

However, make sure the house you choose is very spacious and roomy. Moreover, there should be more than enough interactable objects for them. If you have too many spouses packed in a small house, they will fight over the objects (lol), causing the game to crash. Also, do not get over-excited and marry too many spouses! Even though you are allowed to marry 100, keep them limited. Because the game will crash if you have too many spouses.


There are very limited Skyrim multiple marriage mods and the ones listed above are tried and tested by yours truly.  So without any doubts, go ahead and try these mods if you are looking for ways to marry multiple people in Skyrim.

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